We all have days were we feel our children are disrespectful. We think how did they get such a bad attitude. We don't really want the truth we just want them to show us as parents we deserve better respect. Yet we go around showing disrespect while driving, socializing and in our own communication with them.
As a parent myself, I think children should, regardless of how I act or react, I should still have there respect. ( Just My Opinion). I know the reality is, I've made big mistakes and maybe I don't deserve it, but I am the parent and that's that. As parents we decided that it was ok back when to leave them alone at home. That's when the children felt they had control and did not need a parent telling them what to do. Then of course there was the just say no slogans and saying no to drugs thing, ( yea that worked). While saying no we weren't saying no to our children when it came to other issues and before you know it they decided they could say no to the parent. In turn we've gotten the, you have to get it for me because I'm doing good attitude. I'm not doing drugs or the other things kids are doing. How about this one, tell on your parents if they are doing anything illegal at home or have firearms. Or you can't hit me, I'll call the police. Were do you think they received that guidance and right. Ok I've said enough on that, you get my point. I hope you do. Next time your child tells you no,or I don 't have to,or I'll call the police. Tell them that's ok, yes you do have to, and I have no problem let me call them for you. When they get here you can go live somewhere else. Because this house is mine. I'm paying the bills and taxes so I get the RIGHT to make the rules here.
My first rule is no matter what you will show me Respect, get over it.
If they don't like it, then show them the door.
Just My Opinion
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